~In The World of My Own~

Tonight, I was going thru my friends instastory when there is one really piqued my interest. This person send a Q to my friend.  According to this girl, she just freshly got out of her 7 years relationship with her ex earlier this year. She said whenever she goes out with her guy friends, she will feel very guilty towards her ex.  I agree with my friend's advice to this girl. Girl needs to heal herself before she can attempt. It will take time to 'detox' the ex presence from herself. Physically, mentally and emotionally. To take back the 'power' she has given and focus on the ex and to learn to love and take care of herself. Love thyself first before loving others.  Seeing her story reminds me of my own situation. 13 years later, I just start to heal myself and 'detox' this year. My only mistake was after the breakup, I surpress my hurt instead of healing. The result was not pretty that I finally feeling overwhelmed right after dreaming of 'him' afte...

WUJI  - Xiao Zhan & Wang YiBo 闻笛声独惆怅 wén dí sheng dú chóu chàng Listen for the melody of a flute, alone in sorrow 云深夜未央 yún shēn yè wèi yāng The nights in Yun Shen are long 是与非都过往 shì yǔ fēi dōu guò wǎng Once together, now it’s all in the past 醒来了怎能当梦一场 xǐng lái le zěn néng dāng mèng yī cháng In wakefulness, how can I brush everything away as a dream? 红尘中毁誉得失 如何去量 hóng chén zhōng huǐ yù dé shī rú hé qù liáng In this world, the good and evil done, how does one remember? 潇潇血热刀锋凉 xiāo xiāo xuè rè dāo fēng liáng Just as thick blood warms a cold blade 山高水远 shān gāo shuǐ yuǎn From the mountains yonder to the seas beyond 又闻琴响 yòu wén qín xiǎng The qin sounds once again 陈情未绝 chén qíng wèi jué Echoes feelings yet to disappear 卧荻花月如霜 wò dí huā yuè rú shuāng Like the quiet silvergrass reflecting the frosty moon 煮一壶 生死悲欢 祭少年郎 zhǔ yī hú shēng sǐ bēi huān jì shào nián láng Teach these young ones life and death’s joy and grief 明月依旧何来怅惘 míng yuè yī jiù hé lái chàng wǎng As constant as the brig...