Relationship Story Found on Instastory

Tonight, I was going thru my friends instastory when there is one really piqued my interest. This person send a Q to my friend. 
According to this girl, she just freshly got out of her 7 years relationship with her ex earlier this year. She said whenever she goes out with her guy friends, she will feel very guilty towards her ex. 
I agree with my friend's advice to this girl. Girl needs to heal herself before she can attempt. It will take time to 'detox' the ex presence from herself. Physically, mentally and emotionally. To take back the 'power' she has given and focus on the ex and to learn to love and take care of herself. Love thyself first before loving others. 
Seeing her story reminds me of my own situation. 13 years later, I just start to heal myself and 'detox' this year. My only mistake was after the breakup, I surpress my hurt instead of healing. The result was not pretty that I finally feeling overwhelmed right after dreaming of 'him' after 13 years. Only after being a sobbing mess in0 the morning that I told my best friend that night. Crying about it feels therapeutic and the tightness in my chest was eased. I feel light after talking about it. 
So to the girl, talk to someone, cry it out and don't keep it in like I did for 13 years until the damn burst. Once you are done, take your time to heal and slowly pickup the pieces. Get a new hobby or go out and enjoy with friends or go travelling. That way when the time comes, you will meet someone and get a much more better man than your ex. 
Good luck to you and all the best. 😊

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